So today has probably been one of the most bittersweet days of my life. I had all of my siblings, mother and fathers mother around. It is the first time we had all been together in a long time. We sat around my dad and cried and laughed and then cried some more. We talked about growing up and all those fun things that happened while you were growing up with siblings. Laughing about all the things that you did and have done with the family. We laughed about all the jokes my dad used to tell us. But for those of you who know him and know what he was like. We were talking about something that had happened and he has not really resonded to us besides squeezing our hands in the last few days. He all of a sudden is trying to pull his hand out of the bed to YES hang us all the bird.... It was his sign for I LOVE YOU>>>>
But we worked as a family to help keep dad comfortable. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done, but yet looking across his bed at my brothers and sister all with tears running down their checks gave me a feeling of peace. That together I think we can make it. But the hardest part of it all was singing happy birthday to my Mother who has been an amazing rock and taking care of my father through this all and singing happy birthday to my dad for probably the last time. He will only be 57 on the 14th. It is amazing to me what an impact he has made on so many people in such a short life.
Thanks for letting me vent my feelings of frustration love and appreciation. Now I will wipe the tears from my checks and post...
5 comments:
Jodi,
I am so sorry to hear the sad news. Sue called me this morning to let us know. I sent you an email, but then saw this post, and yes I am bawling. I just want you to know that we are thinking of you all. I even have fun memories of John to add to all the ones Dave has. Please know our prayers go out to you and your family. And bless your sweet mother. Let us know what we can do to help.
Love, the Wall's
Your Dad was such a Fun person. I was so sad to hear of his passing. But having your family together at such an important time before his passing is something you will cherish forever. I am here if you need me, tell your Mom I Love her and miss talking with her. Thanks for you and your families friendship over the last 30 years!!
Jodi,
I fill I can't write anything that would make things better.
I can't stop crying! What a great great man is! There is nothing like family to get you through something like this! I love you and you family so much! I really have some great memories of your old man! He was always so great to me! Hang in there, You are in our prayers. Love you!
Jodi I just heard the news and want you to know my prayers are with you. I remember when we were little and all the great times we had together. I hope you will all be well during this sad time and remember that you will have peace and comfort in your time of need. love chelsea stewart
We love you guys and am so sorry for your loss. What a blessing families are forever. We're praying all of you
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